Showing posts with label worry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label worry. Show all posts

Friday, July 20, 2012

Between a rock and hard place...

As a parent, how do I manage my almost 9 year old daughter's anxieties about flying alone for 4 hours? My heart is breaking.
Her father made a move further away and now wants my little girl to fly as an unaccompanied minor with a chaperone for the first time to his new home for the first time.
My problem is that she doesn't know this new place and for the first visit, he should be with her all the way.
So what can I do to alleviate some of her worries?
How do I make it special and not scary?
And how do I resolve my worries about the whole thing?

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

coincidence?

Last Sunday evening, I was having an in depth conversation with an old friend, when she started telling me about another friend that had gone MIA. This friend had not responded to her emails, texts or voice mails. They had no mutual friends in common but my friend did know where this other woman worked. So she rang and found out that her friend was 'not at work today but would be back tomorrow.' My friend felt a big relief, as she had more then enough to worry about in her own life, with her own family. That being said, I told her that I had not heard from DC for a month, again no response to texts, emails or voice mails and again no real friends in common. But I too know where he works but was loath to ring there, as it felt a bit like being a stalker. But I was worried, especially as he's been traveling a lot with his latest job. We empathised with each other about 'worrying'.
Having finished the conversation, we both got our children ready for bed.
That was done, all was quiet, I sat down to do some homework.
Taking a break, I checked my email.
It has a list of all those people in my address book, also using the same company, who are online at that point.
Big surprise and bizarrely coincidental - DC was online (for a whole hour approx.)
I can stop worrying now that I know he is at least alive.
Not sure if it makes me feel any better.....